Wedding planning 101

From Bliss to Bells—Minus the Stress

Congratulations, lovebirds! You’re now engaged, and ready to plan the most memorable day of your lives—the big wedding bash. But before you dive headfirst into a sea of tulle, let's make this planning journey less of a dramatic rom-com and more of a chill sitcom. Here's your guide to keeping it light-hearted while still covering the essentials.

Step 1: Budget—The "B" Word

Ah, money—romantic, isn’t it? Before visions of gold-plated napkins dance in your heads, have the talk. Grab your calculator, a sense of humor, and possibly a bottle of wine. Decide how much you're willing to spend on this epic shindig. Pro tip: Start your list with "non-negotiables" like food (because no one wants hangry guests) and photography (because you'll need evidence of your fantastic dance moves).

Step 2: Date Debate

Choosing the perfect date is like picking a Netflix show—everyone has an opinion, and you just want to avoid clashes. Spring? Fall? Wednesday because venues are cheaper? Whatever you pick, own it—you're the stars of this show. Just don’t forget to check if it conflicts with national holidays, sports finals, or Aunt Karen’s annual garden party.

Step 3: Guest List—The Hunger Games

Let’s face it—your guest list will inevitably feel like an intense battle of diplomacy. Channel your inner diplomat and remember the golden rule: You’re planning a wedding, not a reunion for distant cousins thrice removed. Keep it simple—invite the people who will actually clap when you kiss, laugh at your jokes, and won’t ask for “plus-one” because they just started dating someone from Tinder.

Step 4: Venue Hunting—The Love Shack

Now that the guest list is sorted (ish), it’s time to find the dream venue. Whether it's a rustic barn, fancy ballroom, or your parents' backyard that you have to mow first—choose a place that matches your vibe. We like to think one of the spots at Art 634 offers a little of everyone’s favorite things, so make sure to check out all of our venues big and small to see what unique space would fit just right for you. Just make sure it can handle Uncle Joe’s dancing…you know, the one with “the moves.”

Step 5: Dress Code Shenanigans

From tuxedos to flower crowns, setting a dress code is an art. Want black-tie? Great. Prefer "wear what makes you happy"? Fabulous! Just don’t leave it too vague, unless you want a mix of formal gowns, Hawaiian shirts, and glittery cat ears.

Final Tip: Have Fun!

Remember, it’s your day. Forget the pressure of perfection and embrace the quirks that make your celebration unique. A hiccup in the timeline? Roll with it. Cake gets smushed? More reason to laugh. At the end of the day, it’s all about the love you’re sharing—and the dance-off at the reception.

So, dear newlyweds, grab a notebook, your favorite snacks, and a sense of adventure. You’re about to embark on an unforgettable journey—and hey, who knew wedding planning could actually be fun? Cheers to your forever!